A prophet says:
Woman was created from crooked rib!!
They said: the prophet of Islam has insulted women when he said that they were created from a crooked rib, that mentioned in Sahih Albukari
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: "Take my advice with regard to women: Act kindly towards women, for they were created from a rib, and the most crooked part of a rib is its uppermost. If you attempt to straighten it; you will break it, and if you leave it alone it will remain crooked; so act kindly toward women
Slander refutation
First:
This Hadith is beginning with the prophet's compliment to women, his commandment to protect her and being afraid of Allah (do not hurt her)
This understood from saying ("Take my advice with regard to women: Act kindly towards women) this Hadith mentioned in Sahih Muslim
Second:
The meaning of (she was created from a crooked rib) is not insulting, but it explains the original of what she was created from, which is Adam's rib ……..the proof:
1-The Hadith itself
2-Bukari has put this Hadith in the book of (created of Adam)
3-The Holly Bible, I'll mention it later by the will of Allah
The prophet's saying (they were created from a rib, and the most crooked part of a rib is its uppermost. If you attempt to straighten it; you will break it, and if you leave it alone it will remain crooked; so act kindly toward women
I said:
This is an adverb to explain and confirm being kindness with her, because she may make a lot of mistakes
So, you husband must be kindness with her, because if you want to make the rib straight
(by correcting her mistakes with force) you'll break it
The proof is what Muslim narrated that Abo Huraira said: If you attempt to straighten her, you will break her, and breaking her is divorcing her"
So there is a great responsibility upon the husband to be kindness, forgiveness with her,
do not blame her a lot and forget her mistakes and her bad behavior to make the companionship continue
That be supported with what Ibn-Hagar said in al-fatih:
The prophet's saying (she was created from a crooked rib)
It was said that Eve was created from Adam's lift rib, it was said also from his short rib, Ibn –Ashak added (from the lift rib of Adam, before he enters paradise and Allah flesh instead of it )
The meaning of( she was created)that she come out like the palm come out of kernel
Kwrtobe said:
It may mean that women was created from the top of Adam's rib so she is like the rib and he added in another narration (and will in no way be straightened for you)
The prophet's saying: (and the most crooked part of a rib is its uppermost)
It refers to her tongue which is the most crooked part in her, the word a'wag (crooked) is used in Arabic to explain that we can not deny this crookedness in the woman
or refers that woman can not be straightened like the rib
His saying:
(. And if you attempt to straighten her, you will break her, and breaking her is divorcing her)
It is an adverb means divorce
(if you want her to leave her crookedness, she'll be divorced)
This Hadith is a proof:
(. And if you attempt to straighten her, you will break her, and breaking her is divorcing her ) Sahih Muslim
So the word rib here could be male or female both are correct
Second:
The fact that women were created from crooked rib had been mentioned in the Holly Bible:
And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him(18)
And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof(21)
And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man(22)
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man(23)
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh(24)
And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashame(25)
There is a question here……..why the cavilers are intercepting about a fact had been mentioned in their Holly Bible……?!!!